Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.

The world, and women especially can view being in love as the highest form of love becasue of it's intensity of feeling. But it is not the most pure, it is not the most important, it is not the loving. Truly self sacrificial love, is far deeper, even if less "buzzy" a feeling, and true happiness will never be found until you this is accepted and experienced.